Aside from that sometimes people take things said on the internet too much to heart and too personally. I know that if you’re in a community for a while you tend to care what those other people think, but you shouldn’t base your happiness on their approval. But who cares if someone calls you a bitch or throws harsh words around. They are just words coming from someone whos never met anything other than your type-e-mc-happy self. You always have the choice to ignore it and move on rather than defend your pride.