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Oct 26

Ryusendo Caves

The trip to the caves was disappointing, at best; though I’d managed to find a couple great pictures online, it appears that those were the only good pictures the caves had to offer. Well, that’s not entirely true. I did take quite a few pictures but many of them seemed repetitive. Overall the caves were small, much smaller than one would think considering Ryusendo is the third largest in Japan and the best part of the trip wasn’t even the focus but there were plenty of random signs to be found. But let me start from the beginning.

Friday night, I hit the bed late. Bad idea, I know, but I was busy doing things, among them working on the site and blogging. I did prepare a bit by making some sandwiches and picking up a few snacks.

Of course, I woke up in a bit of a crappy mood on Saturday and some grumpy time ensued on both my part and Rian’s. In the process of getting ready, I dropped my toothbrush and, because I didn’t want to wake Rian – who didn’t wake up as early as I would have liked – the clothes I wore weren’t freshly washed (though they weren’t exactly dirty.)

RYU-chanEveryone’s favourite Japanese dragon friend.. in sneakers!

Slip the arguing and threats not to go, we head to the library where the buses are waiting, find ours and hop on. The caves are only 90 miles of so south but the trip is expected to take 3 hours. 3 hours! Of course, I figure they just wanted to be safe and estimated the trip generously and there were also 1 or 2 rest stops to be taken into account.

For the most part, I played Mario Kart DS or chatting with Rian while Who Frames Roger Rabbit? played on the only TV at the front of the bus (which was old and in disrepair. The padding on the side of the bus, beneath the window, was ripped and holey on Rian’s side. Nice).

The tour guide assured us that the road ahead would be winding and bump so please make sure to have some gum or candy if you experience motion sickness. Too bad he told us after we were on our way. OF course, if I experienced motion sickness I wouldn’t spend any time, let alone 3 hours (each way) on a bus, unless I had to. Apparently I am alone in this sentiment because the little girl sitting behind me became sick and threw up all over the aisle.

Her parents were quick to clean it up and I felt bad for her. I don’t have a really weak stomach so I could handle it but it didn’t make Rian feel any better.

We finally reached our destination without any obstacles more major than I couldn’t find a single bathroom which contained all of these things: hot water, soap, a means to dry one’s hands. All the bathrooms I encountered had cold water, some had soap and the only one with a way to dry one’s hands (ratty old towels on the counter) did not have soap. Unfortunately, the latter was the one at which I was forced to use the squatty potty. Don’t worry, it’s not like the button of my jeans fell off during this escapade, either. Of course, with everything I packed (camera, DS, food, ID), I did not manage to pack hand sanitizer so I was faced with this dilemma: How do I wash and dry my hands and keep them clean enough to eat? I decided I couldn’t, not really.

Just in case you're confused, this sign helps you determine which entrance to use. Of course, it's all one building and it doesn't really matter which entrance you use.
Japanese Public Toilet Sign

So, I made Rian run around to every bathroom we could find in hopes that one of them would at least have soap and a way to dry my hands, even if I had to use cold water. None did. One had a broken hand dryer, though. I think he became exasperated with me when he started asking “Why even bother? You know it won’t have it.” He was right.

One of the restrooms was at the caves. We arrived 45 minutes early and, initially, the guide said we;’d leave 45 minutes earlier but we went back to the original schedule, much to Rian’s chagrin because he already did not want to be there.

Ryusendo Cave (Japan)
Ryusendo Cave (Japan)

We first went to the Ryusendo cave – the “big cave.” Our guide estimated it would take 30 minutes to traverse but it took more like 15 – 20 minutes. It was quick. We exited and were like “Well, that was it?” And we weren’t exactly hurrying, I stopped to take many a picture; well, as many as we could considering that the first 10 minutes you spend heading down and into the cave then the last minute you simply take 150 or so stairs up and back out into the land of the living.

Waterfalls on the nature trail at Ryusendo CaveWaterfalls on the nature trail at Ryusendo Cave

We paused outside, watching all the other people who were already bored of this so-called adventure before hitting the “nature trail” which was all of 3, maybe 3 blocks long. However, it did afford a much better view of anything than the caves did, following a river which many, small waterfalls.

We then crossed the street and decided to check out the smaller caved which took us 5 minutes tops to go through. If the first were disappointing, the second is similar to some of the small towns in Wisconsin – gone in the blink of an eye. And though both caves advertised the types of bats which dwell in them, I saw none. Pity.

So, in a little less than an hour we’d finished everything there was to do or see about the Ryusendo caves and were ready to cut out losses (temporarily and monetarily) and head home. Of course, the “tour” made one more stop at Kitayamazaki beach after another hour’s worth of driving.

Pacific Ocean at Kitayamazaki Point (Japan)

Pacific Ocean at Kitayamazaki Point (Japan)

The beach was on the ocean and offered a terrific view from several difference terraces, separated by 750 stairs. The guide encouraged us to make the trek down and back up, if we were up to it but discouraged straying from the path because tourists had come across bears before.

We only went down to the second terrace. I was quite excited because it was my first time seeing the ocean up close and I did take many pictures. I was not up to climbing 750 stairs. Even the 100 – 200 stairs we took was hellish going back up after climbing all the steps in the caves and my legs felt like they were barely able to move after I reached the top. It didn’t help that my legs had already been sore before the tour.

We finished off by having an ice cream and purchasing something similar to a stress reliever ball from a shop. It’s quite unique in that it’s flesh coloured and has a nipple on it. Only in Japan, eh?

The trip back was less than painless. The girl behind me threw up again. Luckily on the aisle but this time much closer to me, and it smelled. Like ice cream. Luckily my boobs smelled good so I kept my head in my shirt for a while, whilst watching Mrs. Doubtfire. I had forgotten how funny that movie was; in fact, that was probably the best highlight of the trip.


Sep 28

Bumbleebee Desktop

I don’t post good things nearly as often as I should and definitely not as often as the negative or mundane. I also rarely post pictures and photos (on the blog, at least, anyone who’s looked at my pictures page knows I post many there!); so, without further ado, here is some goodness in photo form.

More to come when FTP comes back up. For now, I’m enjoying Flickr‘s “Blog It” feature. -gasp- I know, you’d never imagine me saying that, right? Nevertheless, I can see how it will be nice when I only want to post a picture or 2.

Bumblebee (from Transformers) wallpaper and matching desktop theme.
Transformers Bumbleebee Desktop, originally uploaded by Cole on 28 Sep ’07, 9.10am EDT PST.

My newest desktop theme – done by hand, of course – and complete with Bumblebee theme. I’m not sure whether I like him or Optimus better. Hmm. Decisions, decisions. Anyway, you can admire my sexy, silver flatscreen monitor here,


Sep 28

Sunset

I don’t post good things nearly as often as I should and definitely not as often as the negative or mundane. I also rarely post pictures and photos (on the blog, at least, anyone who’s looked at my pictures page knows I post many there!); so, without further ado, here is some goodness in photo form.

More to come when FTP comes back up. For now, I’m enjoying Flickr‘s “Blog It” feature. -gasp- I know, you’d never imagine me saying that, right? Nevertheless, I can see how it will be nice when I only want to post a picture or 2.

View of the sunset from our balcony a few nights ago
Sunset, originally uploaded by Cole on 28 Sep ’07, 9.04am EDT PST.

We are very fortunate to have many beautiful sunsets and to be high enough (the 9th floor) to have an almost unobstructed view. Additionally, our balcony has a view of the lake off base and mountains in the background. Sometimes it it quite stunning. Unfortunately, it wasn’t quite as dark as is appears in the photo so the true beauty doesn’t shine through.

More to come, later.


Sep 15

Confession

I was lost and my faith was lost, too. I lost my faith in humanity, in myself and in us. I looked upon everyone as scum of the Earth; I assumed everyone was a liar, a cheater, a thief, a manipulator. I thought everyone was out to get everyone else, especially me. I feared that people only had one goal: to be horrible and make everyone miserable. In reality, I was being the horrible person and I was the one intent on making everyone else miserable because I would only be happy if they weren’t. And I wasn’t happy, as you would probably expect; I was a bully and I was miserable because I wouldn’t let myself be anything else.

Tonight, I saw a couple holding hands and I felt happy for them and I thought that it was such an unusual feeling and it was so tragic that it was unusual. I want to be happy for people; I don’t want my only satisfaction coming from making or seeing others miserable. But I can’t do that until I let go of some of my insecurities and perhaps some of my insecurities are well founded.

And I think I finally had a moment of acceptance today – acceptance of my own humanity. And it was such a relief to simply be rather than trying to be better. Such a weight was off my shoulders and it felt great, honestly, great. Sometimes I am so competitive, so unproductively competitive and, in the end, it all comes back around and makes me miserable. Others may have a hard time living up to my expectations but I have the hardest time of all.

I feel as though I’ve come to a new place, a better place and I recognize where I was before; I recognize it for how detrimental and self-destructive it really was. Not only that, but I can see how it was hurting others, hurting those I would never wish to hurt. But I was.

Furthermore, I see how I got to that place, what it was the dragged me so low and helped prevent me from coming back up again. And I can see how easy it would be for that dark force to enter my life again.

I don’t want to go back there again. I won’t. I would do anything to prevent that, anything.

Even if it means leaving.


Sep 14

We Belong

Sometimes I see couples – sometimes strangers and sometimes acquaintances – and I wonder how they can be together. They seem too dissimilar, too this, too that but they don’t seem like they’d make a good couple. Especially with people I know, I think I tend to actually be thinking “I couldn’t be with him/her” because I am familiar with and can relate to one half of the couple and couldn’t see my place in his or her shoes. Often, I forget that others are not myself and this does skew my judgment, unfortunately.

Thinking this, makes me wonder if others look at me in the same light, if others wonder how Rian and I can be together, what we see in eachother, how we make eachother happy, why we chose to be married so on and so forth. I know this sounds like a negative thought, but it’s not.. It’s really more of a thing that makes you go “huh. Well, that’s something.”

The title actually, is the title of a Pat Benatar song which I’m listening to at the moment which, I believe, was co-written by Dave Nvarro. Neat, huh? It sums up the way I am currently feeling quite well and it’s also a great song. Quite a change from this, no doubt, and I think it’s a good thing. The last week and a half or so has been really great for us. I’m not sure why and Rian says not to question if but, if you know me, you know I have to because I want to harvest whatever it is that makes things go well and use it in the future.

Lyrics below:

We belong, we belong to the light
Many times I’ve tried to tell you
Many times I’ve cried alone
Always I’m surprised how well you
Cut my feelings to the bone

Don’t want to leave you really
I’ve invested too much time
To give you up that easy
To the doubts that complicate your mind

Chorus:

We belong to the light
We belong to the thunder
We belong to the sound of the words
We’ve both fallen under
Whatever we deny or embrace
For worse or for better
We belong, we belong
We belong together

Maybe it’s a sign of weakness
When I don’t know what to say
Maybe I just wouldn’t know
What to do with my strength anyway
Have we become a habit
Do we distort the facts
Now there’s no looking forward
Now there’s no turning back
When you say

(chorus)

Close your eyes and try to sleep now
Close your eyes and try to dream
Clear your mind and do your best
To try and wash the palette clean
We can’t begin to know it
How much we really care
I hear your voice inside me
I see your face everywhere
Still you say

(chorus)

I’ve also just realized that my archives only work until the end of last year. Hmmph.


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