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Her Realm, Personal website and blog of Cole
Aug 28

The In Crowd

I feel pretty euphoric right now. I feel so connected. Part of something bigger than myself. Like I’m helping to make something happen.

And while it may seem silly, there’s a very specific reason I feel this way. Tonight, I contributed to two crowdfunding campaigns. One for hilarious, nerd comedian Joseph Scrimshaw and one for rock band Adelitas Way’s new album.

Sure, there’s perks to these things, including some immediate song downloads, emails with folks whose work I admire and other prizes I didn’t opt for. It also feels pretty damn good to help ensure that the things I love will continue to be made. And if I can help in any way, it’s like the girl without an artistic bone in her body is a catalyst, as the very least. I will be able to continue to enjoying these things because I wanted it that much.

But there’s something even better. Can you believe that? It’s this feeling of connectedness. Of knowing that I’ve joined thousands of other people in pledging money, not to mention the people actually making these things. We want a thing. We are brought together by our love of it. The world isn’t so cold, lonely or harsh.

I wonder if heaven feels a little bit like that?


Sep 21

Homeless Family Trying to Build Life in Southern Utah

I am writing this on behalf of a fellow blogger, Victoria of Mom Does Reviews. She recently shared her experience running a family of seven people — and two dogs — who have been homeless for most of this year. Victoria has a GoFundMe campaign that fill finally enable the family to have a place to call home. 

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Since January of this year, Victoria Johnny, her husband and her five children have been traveling the country. It might seem like a dream vacation or an alternative lifestyle, but the truth is more heartbreaking than that. The family of seven is homeless, a word that doesn’t come easy to the matriarch. But things could get much worse. A sixth child is on the way.

Fate seemed to conspire against the family, who originally lived in Florida. The Johnnys decided to live out their dreams of starting a home business. Victoria writes at a popular blog, Mom Does Reviews, and her husband tried his has as a handyman. However, while Victoria was able to bring in income  through blogging, it wasn’t enough to support their family of seven when her husband’s business didn’t pan out.

Since then, the family has stayed with friends on a family farm, spent some nights at hotels, camped out in parks and, when there was no other option, slept in the family car. It wasn’t easy, Victoria describes. When the weather was bad and they were forced to sleep in their SUV, they would move all their belongings to a tent. Their homelessness strained friendships when people weren’t able to put up five children, their parents and Ativan two dogs. Potential job leads fell through when the family was unable to establish a residence close enough.

And being homeless isn’t cheap. Victoria estimates that it costs at least $1,800 monthly to feed her family of five and two family pets. She works six to eight hours every day whenever there is a wireless connection around, but that’s not always an option when the family is forced to camp.

Things are finally starting to look up for the Johnnys, however. An accidental job lead in Southern Utah has led the family to a place where they could finally put down roots. Low crime rates, beautiful weather and affordable housing are among the reasons why Southern Utah just makes sense for the growing family.

Before they can finally breathe a sigh of relief, they will have to come up with the money for rental, security, pet and utility deposits — at least $2500. The family is without much of their possessions, including furniture and homeschooling materials, which are stored elsewhere. Victoria has set up a GoFundMe page that outlines stretch goals that include transporting those items to their new home.

The family doesn’t just want to take, however. After they get their feet back on the ground, they plan to give back to the community, friends and family and even strangers when they can. But this will only come together if they can finally have a home to come home to.

If you’d like to contribute to the campaign, visit the GoFundMe page here: http://www.gofundme.com/efhxfg

You can also read about the family’s plight in Victoria’s own words at Mom Does Reviews:  http://momdoesreviews.com/2014/09/17/homeless-look-like-help-gofundme/


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